Friday, August 7, 2009

WHY SINGLES LADIES FIND IT HARD TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS?




WHY SINGLES LADIES FIND IT HARD TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS?

When a woman is young and beautiful, she’s said to be the choice maker, but when she’s growing older the right to those choices are gone, it is obvious that most ladies today are looking for successful men and few happen to fine, but must it be this way? Just like we were all born into the same world, lucky and some unlucky, it is nature. If every thing in life was to come without a struggle, then we won’t learn to appreciate the value of that thing regardless of its nature. Many ladies are always carried away with the thought of looking for the best, than think of looking for that one to bring out the best in him, that’s when a woman can truly call a man her own, because she was there with him and for him, many of this characters are found more in Africa, and much more countries round the world.
Everything in life has stages and time, every woman takes pride when she’s young and her beauty is priceless, in her youthful days she out for fun and just being selective, as the years grows on and on and she can’t honestly say to her self, I have a man that will or is likely to marry me, she began to get frustrated about being single, at this point she’s less selective but more vigilant, that’s when regrets start coming in, she will sit and think to herself and recall all those men she has turn down in the past, some of which really meant well but due to their circumstance they were rejected, ladies needs to be careful at the way they reject men, so they won’t be rejected too, the clock always turns you know….the pride of a woman is to hear the cry of her baby and to get up in the morning realizing that she’s married to a man she can boldly say this is my man, it involves hard work and endurance to see this come true, it shouldn’t matter if the man has money or not, or if the man looks hash or ugly. The truth is that you can’t really know what should matter until you get to know the person, must men might have the face of a lion but the heart of an angel, if you get to know the person even if its for two weeks of conversations and you still feel you are not going to be happen with him, then you can search further, what will you as a lady do, if you should meet a man who is not all you need physically but 100% of who you would love to spent the rest of the life with, what will matter the most to you, will it be the face or the heart, there will be a time in your life as a lady when you will have no choice but to want to marry just any man that comes your way, even the one you once had doubt for, because he had half of what you desired.

A single and aging woman is a desperate woman and every man is aware of ladies that are desperate and are always ready to take advantage of such ladies, that’s when ladies will be willing to do just anything to satisfy that man, just to try and keep him coming to them, just hoping he would one day want to settle with them even though the man might be treating them badly, they wouldn’t mind, but it wouldn’t have been that way, there’s a reward for every hard work in whatever circumstance it is applied, ladies need to understand that marriage is a life time commitment between a man and a woman, and until a man fines the lady he plans of marrying, worthy of a place in his life forever which just doesn’t come easily.

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